Trans, Fatty, Acidic
Why would anyone want to be dominated, given the risks? Because it is a healing process. As a top, I find the old wounds and unappeased hunger I nourish, I cleanse and close the wounds. I devise and mete out appropriate punishment for old, irrational sins… I trip up the bottom. I see her as she is, and I forgive her and turn her on and make her come, despite her feelings of unworthiness or self-hatred or fear. We are all afraid of losing, of being captured and defeated. I take the sting out of that fear. A good scene doesn’t end with orgasm— it ends with catharsis.
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—

P. Califia (1979), A Secret Side of Lesbian Sexuality (via noteasybeingred)

this is basically what I want every time I bottom and what I have only rarely managed to get. 

(via hobbitdragon)
Reblogged 10 months ago from mxnotmrdarcy (Originally from noteasybeingred)
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