…and my sexuality and romance
So, spurred by a recent ask, I thought I’d also add stuff about my sexuality/romance.
I could find anyone, regardless of gender, hot or aesthetically attractive at first sight (but this ends up being very skewed, gender-wise)
But I’m most sexually&romantically attracted to folks of certain other nonbinary genders (the majority of said folks I’ll meet), also attracted to women and agender/genderless folks (less than a majority), and not at all to men and neutrois folks.
This way simplifies it, of course, since when I talk about attraction to folks of ‘various nonbinary genders’ it’s a hell of a lot more diverse than even my attractions to folks of ‘various (two) binary genders’, so. And it doesn’t even begin to take into account genderfluid people like, er, me, and my partner. So.
It also varies with my gender somewhat - I tend to focus WAY more on women when I am one. Which makes ‘homosexual but w/ weird definitions of “same”’ fairly accurate :P
So yeah, this is why I just go with ‘queer’ usually.
(Addendum: To me, ‘lesbian’ has connotations of ‘attracted to women and only women’ whereas ‘dyke’ feels less specific? I don’t by any means ADVOCATE the strictly-policed definition of ‘lesbian,’ and in other ways I identify pretty strongly with it. But as is, I worry that calling myself ‘lesbian’ on here would give people the impression that my partner is also a woman, or that I see anyone I’m attracted to as women regardless of their actual gender/s, and NO.)